Being a girl in a narrow minded society is hard. It's true. I'm also a girl and when I say being a girl is the one of the hardest things ,I literally mean it. You would say that's not true,girls are doing great, they are strong bla bla bla... That's also true girls are awesome,no doubt in that but small numbers of girls are lucky to have a life as she wants.
There are so many rules for girls our society has made and because of that stupid society rules many women are suffering in their lives. And when a girl or woman try to live as she wants, don't cares what society think, our society label them as charechchless. When we talk about equality obviously it's about same things for both side. But in our society if a boy do something it's ok but the same thing a girl do than it's not okay. I'm not saying that boys or men don't have problems in their lives but this society rules are only for women that's not equality. There are so many girls and women who bury their dreams everyday, some because of our society and some because of their own family. Yes sometimes our own family makes us believe that being a girl is a curse. If you have such family i feel you , don't accept a lot from them they are not going to understand you girl. Focus on yourself, look around you what's left in you, gather it all together and think what can you do for yourself.
There is a saying that woman is woman's biggest enemy. True!! Being a woman we know our struggle, still when it's about other woman we judhj them. Why? A mother all her life she thought her daughter to make everyone happy, do things with permission, all the rules but mant times she forgot to give love her daughter. All her childhood she just told to be obedient . Being an Indian girl your whole life is control by your family,all you are preparing to get married with a stranger who will never understand your struggle. Some may understand but it's not worthy for all the years you lose .
There are many women, girls who are dying inside and smiling outside. All i want to say be little kind world needs kind people. If you are a mother,try to understand your daughter, talk to her , Don't judge other women, and if you are a girl with millions dreams in your eyes, don't lose hope girl. You need to be strong,if you want to make your dreams come true you have to become independent, you have to be strong, you have to fight for yourself. Because you are the only one who can save yourself.!
There are so many rules for girls our society has made and because of that stupid society rules many women are suffering in their lives. And when a girl or woman try to live as she wants, don't cares what society think, our society label them as charechchless. When we talk about equality obviously it's about same things for both side. But in our society if a boy do something it's ok but the same thing a girl do than it's not okay. I'm not saying that boys or men don't have problems in their lives but this society rules are only for women that's not equality. There are so many girls and women who bury their dreams everyday, some because of our society and some because of their own family. Yes sometimes our own family makes us believe that being a girl is a curse. If you have such family i feel you , don't accept a lot from them they are not going to understand you girl. Focus on yourself, look around you what's left in you, gather it all together and think what can you do for yourself.
There is a saying that woman is woman's biggest enemy. True!! Being a woman we know our struggle, still when it's about other woman we judhj them. Why? A mother all her life she thought her daughter to make everyone happy, do things with permission, all the rules but mant times she forgot to give love her daughter. All her childhood she just told to be obedient . Being an Indian girl your whole life is control by your family,all you are preparing to get married with a stranger who will never understand your struggle. Some may understand but it's not worthy for all the years you lose .
There are many women, girls who are dying inside and smiling outside. All i want to say be little kind world needs kind people. If you are a mother,try to understand your daughter, talk to her , Don't judge other women, and if you are a girl with millions dreams in your eyes, don't lose hope girl. You need to be strong,if you want to make your dreams come true you have to become independent, you have to be strong, you have to fight for yourself. Because you are the only one who can save yourself.!
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